The Law of Attraction Isn't Working for Me!
"Why isn't the Law of Attraction working for me?" This cry of frustration is uttered often by people who are
learning to consciously create better lives using the Law of Attraction.
After spending weeks trying to raise their vibration, focus their minds and bring forth a better reality, they
can't understand why they're not seeing results.
Or sometimes they'll see small results which gives them incentive to keep going, but they still don't see
improvement where it REALLY counts.
Does this describe you? Have you raised your eyes to the heavens and demanded to know why the Law of Attraction
isn't working for you? Or perhaps you've resigned yourself to one of these deadly beliefs:
Well, wipe those destructive thoughts right out of your mind!
- "It seems to work for other people, but I just can't get it right."
- "I must be doomed to failure."
- "God must really hate me."
- "I knew it wouldn't work, but at least I tried."
- "Why do I keep falling for these ridiculous schemes?"
Seriously, they won't serve you a bit, though I can understand why you're tempted to believe them - I've been
Here's the good news: the Law of Attraction IS working for you. It works all the time, every time,
without exception. If you're not seeing the results you want, the time has come to ask yourself what you're
putting out there that is attracting similar energy back into your life.
Before you get angry at me for telling you you're "doing it wrong," please understand that you're probably
NOT doing it "wrong" - but there may be one or two things you're doing that are creating
resistance, which slows down your results.
Skim down the following list of the most common ways we interfere with the Law of Attraction and block it from
delivering what we want; and compare them carefully with your own habitual thoughts and feelings:
Do you have a clear vision of exactly what you want? Perhaps you aren't picky, you just want things to be
"better" than they are now, whatever that ends up looking like. However, the Universe doesn't want you to settle
for "something good," but instead attract EXACTLY what you desire!
What do you desire? Take some time to think about the facets of your life. Think about your job, financial
status, relationships, health, body size, vehicle, residence, and more. Are all of these things an accurate
reflection of what you would create if you could start over? Make a detailed list of EXACTLY what you
want to create for yourself. Write down every tiny aspect you can think of. Then read this list frequently to keep
your vision sharp and clear in your mind.
Do you REALLY believe you deserve the things on your list? What makes you so special that you
deserve abundant health, wealth and happiness? That's not a rhetorical question. I'm really asking, what makes you
so special? Don't have an answer? How about this: YOU EXIST. Someone breathed you into existence and infused
you with all these desires, and for what? Why would your desires exist if you weren't meant to experience them?
Until you can understand just how special and unique you truly are, you might resist the abundance and joy the
Universe is offering you. Perhaps you feel guilty that others are struggling, so you keep yourself at a lower level
so you don't make them feel bad.
However, holding yourself back doesn't serve them, or you. Embrace your true worth as a human being and let it
be a shining example for all to see. Empower others (and yourself) with the knowledge that they too can create
Some of us have a skewed view of the Universe (or God, if that term resonates with you). From an early age,
we're taught that we have to comply with certain guidelines and behavioral rules - or else. We see the Universe as
some angry force that will deliver a wrath of misery upon us if we do something wrong.
It's no surprise that most of us end up feeling like we're walking on eggshells. We actually
EXPECT bad things to happen because we've developed such a negative view of the "powers that be". We're
afraid to ask for what we really want because we might be viewed as greedy, ungrateful or selfish. We're afraid to
hope for something better because we might get a lightning bolt up the wazoo.
How about turning this belief around?
We can just as easily believe in a loving Universe, one that wants us to do well, be happy, and feel
abundant. Rather than approaching the Universe with the mind-set of a scolded child, why not step
forward confidently and joyfully and claim ownership of what is already yours? Believe me, the Universe
will applaud you for doing so, and reward you beyond your wildest dreams.
Even if you WANT to believe that the Law of Attraction really works, you might be holding back
somewhat to protect yourself from disappointment.
If you don't give it your "all," you think it won't hurt so badly when it doesn't work out.
However, doubt is like a big old rubber doorstop that prevents the gateways of abundance from opening. You
affirm, you visualize, you get clear, and the gate begins to swing open, creating a crack through which shimmering
golden light shines forth. You begin to step forward into your glorious new reality, when "bump!," -- oops, never
mind, there's a doorstop there and the gap isn't big enough to let you through. Oh well, better luck next time.
Think of FAITH as the oil that keeps the hinges on the gates of prosperity operating smoothly. If
you keep the hinges lubricated and the gates free of any obstructions (doubts) - they will swing right open and
you'll be dazzled by what you see on the other side.
No matter how badly you want something, if you don't believe it's possible, you will resist it. Perhaps you've
set some lofty goals for yourself, things that almost seem too good to be true. Perhaps you want to be a
millionaire, but you're currently earning $15,000 per year. Or you want to meet your soulmate, but you long ago
convinced yourself that he or she doesn't exist. Turning these negative beliefs around is CRUCIAL in
attracting your desires!
For every limiting belief you hold, I want you to take a blank sheet of paper and come up with ten reasons why
your desires are POSSIBLE.
It's important to make the reasons believable and logical. For example, "It's possible for me to become a
millionaire because other people have done it, and some of them started with less than I have now!" Or, "It's
possible that my soulmate exists because I simply haven't met every person on the planet yet. He or she might be
searching for me even as I search for him/her!"
Keep repeating these reasons to yourself, until you are absolutely CONVINCED that your desires are
indeed possible. It may take time, and it will certainly take lots of repetition, but the stronger your belief is,
the more likely you are to attract the end result you desire.
Do your day-to-day thoughts, feelings, and actions paint a very different picture than the affirmations and
visualizations you project? Are you affirming your financial abundance while at the same time worrying about your
Both realities CANNOT co-exist in your life.
Either you're prosperous, or you're not. Either you're successful, or you're not. Either you're healthy, or
At every possible moment, you need to let go of your old reality - even if it means pretending that the symptoms
of lack, struggle, and illness do not exist. At the very beginning, it will be a challenge to do this fully, but if
you keep at it day after day, repeatedly turning your attention to thoughts of wellness, abundance, and joy, and
focusing less on lack, struggle, and illness, you begin to shift your reality to what you focus on the most.
Perhaps you're claiming to want something better, but you also fear it on a deeper level.
If you want to be a best-selling author but you fear publicity and fame, guess what happens? You resist the
formation of such a reality in your life because it makes you uncomfortable. If you want to be financially abundant
but you worry about what others would think of you, resistance is woven throughout your desire for more money. In
effect, you're asking for something but also pushing it away at the same time.
One good way to overcome these fears is by facing them on paper. Ask yourself how you would handle people who
thought poorly of you for being wealthy. "I'd tell them to mind their own business," might be one response, or
"Their opinions of me don't affect my life one way or the other" would work nicely also. If you get clear about
your fears, you'll realize that most of them are irrational or irrelevant. Even the ones that hold merit, however,
can be worked through and your resistance will dissolve in the light of clarity and purpose.
You watched the movie, "The Secret," or read a great book about the Law of Attraction, and now you're all fired
You're SO DETERMINED to change your life that you proceed full steam ahead. You begin religiously
reciting affirmations and performing meditations and visualizations and feeling good at every possible
After a week or two nothing has happened, so you increase the intensity of your efforts. You start meditating
not just for 15 minutes a day, but for two hours a day.
Your affirmations become a litany of desperation to make something happen. Still no results, so you work harder,
and harder, and HARDER at it - until finally you scream in frustration, utterly exhausted from trying
Lighten up! I know, that's easier said than done when you're not happy with your current reality. But seriously,
the harder you "try," the worse it's going to get.
Back off, relax, and just let it happen when it's going to happen. The more relaxed and joyful you can be about
the process, the more quickly your desires will come forth. Read more about the process of "allowing," and learn
how to BE what you're trying to attract. It's a much simpler way to activate the Law of Attraction, and
everything will just FLOW smoothly and easily. No force required. Really.
Speaking of frustration - it's yet another way we interfere with the manifestation of our desires. When we feel
frustrated, we emit an unmistakable signal to the Universe that acts as a beacon to attract more
situations to be frustrated about!
Remember the importance of FEELING GOOD!
Why is it so important? Because of the signal it broadcasts to the Universe. The more you feel good, the more
you attract situations and experiences that will help you to feel good. I know it's challenging to feel good when
things aren't going the way you want, but it's so important to do so anyway!
I don't care if you have to slink off to a private place to be alone with your thoughts, or sit in a movie
theater to watch a comedy, or go window shopping on your lunch hour. FIND things that make you feel
good, and do them as often as possible. It is so, so, SO important! If you have a few moments of
frustration here and there, don't sweat it too much, just do what you can to have MORE moments of
feeling good than you do of feeling frustration. It will make an incredible difference.
Most of the people I hear uttering the weary cry above ("Why isn't the Law of Attraction working for me?")
haven't been working at it for long. Perhaps a few days or weeks, or a few months sporadically. Believe me,
I know the feeling of desperation to get things moving in a more positive direction, but it takes time!
Remember that we're constantly experiencing a RESIDUAL effect of our past thoughts, feelings and
beliefs. It's unrealistic to want to change it all overnight. It's not going to happen that quickly most of the
Sure, you might see small improvements here and there, which can make you feel like you're making progress.
That's a good thing! Just don't despair if you seem to be moving in slow motion through unpleasant circumstances.
You're not crazy, you're not doomed to failure, and you're not a complete idiot. The transition you're going
through is completely normal.
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